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These days, however, the New York Times Vows section—famous for its meet-cute stories of the blissfully betrothed—is full of couples who trumpet the love they found through Ok Cupid or Tinder. Today an estimated one-third of marrying couples in the U.S. met online, and as many as 15 percent of American adults have used dating sites or apps. (Even Martha Stewart, who in 2013 declared in her Match profile that she was looking for a “lover of animals, grandchildren, and the outdoors.” Martha, have you considered Raya, the private celebrity dating app?) This content is imported from {embed-name}. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. Locking eyes across a crowded room might make for a lovely song lyric, but when it comes to romantic potential, nothing rivals technology, according to Helen Fisher, PhD, a biological anthropologist, senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, and chief scientific adviser to Match. “It’s more possible to find someone now than at probably any other time in history, particularly if you’re older. You don’t have to stand in a bar and wait for the right one to come along,” says Fisher. “And we’ve found that people looking for a sweetheart on the internet are more likely to have full-time employment and higher education, and to be seeking a long-term partner. Online dating is the way to go—you just have to learn to work the system.” Related Stories 7 Ways You Can Be More Romantic 12 of the Best Romance Novel Recommendations So take heart: Whether you’re a first-time player or a seasoned contestant who wants to up her game, our troubleshooting guide is here to help, with advice from both experts and survivors on how to search strategically, handle setbacks gracefully, maintain sanity, and enjoy the ride—with minimal agony and maximum ecstasy. Your eligible bachelor awaits!How To...Get Better at Online Dating For guidance, O Style Features Director Holly Carter turned to a pro. Seven years ago, I signed up for Match.com, but I never took it seriously. For me, online dating is like exercise: At the end of the day, it’s easier to watch TV. But at 44, I started to realize that if I want a companion before Social Security kicks in, I have to leave the couch. I needed a trainer, someone who could help me focus—only instead of getting defined abs, I’d get a mate (hopefully, with defined abs). Enter Damona Hoffman, dating coach and host of the Dates & Mates podcast, who promises rapid results if I just follow a few tough-love rules.... . TRUE CONFESSIONS: “I got a surprise phone call from their wife." Married daters are more common than we’d like to think, says dating coach Laurel House, host of the podcast The Man Whisperer. Her tip: “A little pre-date due diligence is smart. Do a Google image search with his photo to see if it links to a Facebook or Instagram account.” This can also protect you from scam artists—be wary if the photos seem too perfect or his language is considerably more fluent in his profile than in his messages. And if he tells you he lost his wallet and needs a loan? Run. Treat it like it's your job. The first thing Hoffman tells me: “This takes time and attention. I want you to be on the site at least three hours a week.” Uh-oh. That’s three episodes of The Sinner.Put style in your profile. Kindly, Hoffman refrains from mocking my unassisted self-description: “I’m a loving person who likes trying new restaurants and a sweet treat before bed.” (I never realized how dirty that sounds.) She asks about my hobbies, how my coworkers would fill in the “most likely to” blank. She then revises my profile, noting that I love cooking vegetables I grow in my garden, that Dave Chappelle has my kind of humor, that “meeting new people excites me: I could spend half an hour talking to the cashiers at Trader Joe’s.” Tip: Whenever I meet someone for the first time, I drop a pin and let a friend know where I am. Three-quarters of the profile should be about me, and the other quarter about what I want in a mate, says Hoffman, who tells me to be specific here, too: The goal isn’t to attract everyone, it’s to find The One. We come up with “My ideal match is someone who loves family, has an opinion on current events, and can hold his own at a cocktail party on a Friday night, then chill with me on a lazy Saturday.” The final touch is a headline that sums up my approach to life, like a personal slogan. Hoffman suggests “Family. Kindness. Friends. Faith. That’s what I value most.” Hmm. I’m spiritual and go to church, but “faith” sounds heavy. I swap it for “fun.” . TRUE CONFESSIONS: "He sent a really personal photo." Why does a man have to text a pic of his penis when "Hello" would suffice? One possible explanation, offered by Justin Lehmiller, PhD, research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Want, is that men tend to overestimate the sexual interest of women they casually encounter, so they may assume the "gift" will be welcome. And if they occasionally get a positive response, they may figure it can't hurt to try again. "In psychology research, we call this a 'variable reinforcement schedule,'" Lehmiller says. "It's like a slot machine—the majority of the time, you pull the lever and nothing happens, but every once in a while, there's a payoff." A deflating solution from one online dater: "Draw a face on it and send it back to him."Work your angles. Hoffman looks at my photos and nixes the corporate headshot and mirror selfie. “You want to look natural and inviting. Mirror selfies often give off an air of vanity.” She says the best profile shots feature the three Cs: color (vibrant shades, especially red, grab attention), context (pics that involve your hobbies, like travel or, say, clog dancing), and character (something quirky or funny, “like you in your Halloween costume”). The Headshot The Selfie The Mirror Selfie For the main photo, we do a close headshot where I’m smiling into the camera. For the others, we do one of me outside in a green dress, one where I’m wearing something sparkly, and another where I’m standing on an escalator. This doesn’t reveal much about me besides my aversion to stairs, but it’s a full body shot, which Hoffman recommends. Agreed—as a curvy girl, I want to avoid first-date surprises. I skip quirky. I haven’t worn a Halloween costume since I went as a pack of grape Hubba Bubba in sixth grade. . TRUE CONFESSIONS: “The photo was dreamy. The reality is...scary.” If they're older/paunchier/have more neck bolts than he does in the photos, choose compassion, says New York dating coach Connell Barrett. “He probably lied because it’s a sore spot.” Just have one polite drink. Who knows? You may wind up charmed—and it’s the human thing to do. Take charge. One reason I’ve been passive about online dating: Most of the guys have been a little conservative for my taste. (When you’re a black woman in your 40s, why do all your matches look like George Jefferson?) Hoffman says the algorithm, like a boyfriend, can’t read my mind; I need to message and “like” guys I find appealing if I want to start seeing similar people in my results. Plus, being more active should bump my profile toward the top, so I’ll be more visible. Tip: I try to appreciate the bad dates. The craziest nights are your best stories. I should make my messages personal, advises Hoffman: “Comment on something in his profile and follow with a question.” Dutifully, I tell one bespectacled prospect, “I like melty ice cream, too. What’s your favorite flavor?” I have some interesting chats, but nothing leads anywhere. After a lengthy back-and-forth with a cute guy who asks why I’m still single (beats me!), I try a Hoffman move, writing, “That’s a story better told over a drink.” He suggests... chicken fingers. As in fast food? Is this a sex thing I don’t know about? But then—success! Someone “likes” me and asks me out within three messages. He’s into photography and makes his own pasta—and he is an Adonis. We have a short phone call, as Hoffman recommends, to set something up. His voice is velvety, but I’m skeptical. That’s online dating: You meet the freakazoids and think, This is the worst. You find someone great and think, Am I going to be on the next episode of Catfish? . TRUE CONFESSIONS: "They're cute! They're fun! They vanished." Ghosting happens to the best of us, says therapist and dating coach Melanie Hersch. To stay sane, she says, “stop telling yourself stories to explain it, like ‘It’s because I’m not good enough.’ Trying to figure out why someone didn’t choose you is like trying to swim with ankle weights: You’ll get pulled right down instead of moving forward. Let him disappear and make way for the partner you deserve.” Don't rush it. On the day of the date, I meet him at a restaurant. (Hoffman wouldn’t approve; she said to make the first date a quick drink, one hour max, but when Hunkamania suggested dinner, I couldn’t resist.) He’s just as swoon worthy in person as his photos! I’m supposed to focus on how I feel, not on “the package”—but it’s hard when the package is so beautifully wrapped. . He's sweet, too, talking about his grandma, and we follow dinner with drinks. By the time he drops me off at my door, I’ve exceeded my time limit by three hours and 32 minutes. It’s kind of like blowing a diet: You know what you’re supposed to do, but then you see dessert, and will power goes out the window. I realize I got lucky, that this was the dating equivalent of finding a magical unicorn. Plenty of my friends do online dating like it’s an Olympic sport, and they’ve had the most romantic evenings of their lives with guys who then promptly vaporize into the earth’s atmosphere. But whatever happens, it feels good to be back in the game. I decide to message Mr. Chicken Fingers, knowing I shouldn’t put all my eggs in one basket. TRUE CONFESSIONS: "They sent a Venmo request for my half of the bill." That’s not only unchivalrous but passive-aggressive, says Barrett. “When this happened to a friend of mine, she sent the entire amount with a note that said, ‘Looks like you need this more than I do.’” How to...Increase Your Odds of Finding a Match Meet 9 people. Our brains are best equipped to handle five to nine options—any more, and we go into cognitive overload. “At that point you just start looking for reasons to say no, like ‘Look at his ugly shoes,’” says Fisher. Pick nine, meet in person, then take a break while you get to know at least one. Set 3 deal-breakers. “If there’s something you truly can’t tolerate—smoking, for instance—okay, but I give clients a limit,” says House.“Most people focus on wants: hot, funny. You find the right one when you focus on needs: communication, mutual respect.” Give it 3 dates. “Even if you don’t feel ‘chemistry,’” says House. “Chemistry doesn’t last. Attraction is important, but if someone meets your needs, you may find the attraction follows.” . TRUE CONFESSIONS: "He said we'd have great kids, and later texted 'Are we a couple?' It was our first date." If you don’t want to ghost or fake your death, says Barrett, text back: “I had a great time, but I’ve had a couple of dates with someone else, and I’d like to see where it goes. But there’s an amazing woman out there who will be lucky to get you.”How to...Find the Best Dating Platform If you seek: Wedded bliss Eharmony Answer an in-depth survey based on 29 “dimensions of compatibility” (e.g., humor, physical energy, communication style), then get a new list of potential soul mates regularly—no searching required.If you seek: Other grownups Match Don’t worry, someone here will get your pop culture references: 39 percent of Match users are in the 37–52 age group, and 27 percent are between 53 and 72.If you seek: The hip crowd OkCupid An entertaining questionnaire (“Do you believe in dinosaurs?”) and open options: Look for anything from a partner to a polyamorous paramour.If you seek: The driver’s seat Bumble With this app, every night is ladies’ night: Swipe right on an attractive gentleman, and if he’s interested, it’s up to you to make the first move.If you seek: Maximum efficiency Tinder The “swipe surge” feature, available in select cities, alerts you when the app is getting a lot of action, so you can get some, too.If you seek: A date with destiny Happn This geolocation-based app shows you well-matched users who are close by; check your Timeline to find hot prospects who have recently crossed your path.If you seek: A big pond Plenty of Fish Cast a really wide net on this free site with more than 150 million users; quiz lovers will dig the cheekily revealing questions about relationship needs and seduction styles. . TRUE CONFESSIONS: "We're perfect, but their profile is still up." Hold off on The Talk until the three-month mark, which gives him a chance to form an attachment, advises psychiatrist Ish Major, MD, co-host of WE TV’s Marriage Bootcamp Reality Stars. “And at that point, if he shares your feelings, you’ll be more comfortable defining expectations. If he doesn’t, it maybe time to think about moving on.” Illustrations by Annie Wu. This story originally appeared in the February 2019 issue of O. This content is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this page to help users provide their email addresses. You may be able to find more information about this and similar content at piano.io This commenting section is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this page. You may be able to find more information on their web site. 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Skip to content Latest News: VIDA Select sees large surge in online dating & video dates during Coronavirus. Main Site About Us Our Process Blog Blog Home Bumble Data Analysis Dating Profiles Dating Site / App Reviews Facebook Dating First Date Tips Hinge Match Messages OkCupid Online Dating Tips Profile Photos Texting The League Tinder Top Dating Sites & Apps Get Started Here I want to learn about Everything Everything Tinder Bumble Hinge Profile Tips & Examples Dating Tips 11 Online Dating First Message Examples That Get Responses Tired of not getting responses to the messages you send on online dating sites and apps? Whether it’s Match.com, OkCupid, POF, or Tinder, sending that first message to a girl you really like and getting no response is one of the worst things about online dating. Especially when it happens over and over. That’s a big reason why many online daters give up entirely within just a few months. But don’t throw in the towel just yet – we’ve got 11 online dating first message examples that work like magic to get responses, and you can use them today! Exclusive Bonus: Download our 5 favorite conversation starters to get immediate response from attractive women. Not only will you get proven-to-work examples you can use right now, you’ll also get the online dating message tips you need to come up with your own unique conversation starters – and the best times to send them. Just follow the expert advice in this short article and watch your inbox fill up with women who are excited to meet you in person! First Message Strategy #1: Go For Laughs Funny online dating messages get responses because women naturally find guys with a sense of humor attractive. It’s true – scientists have proven it. But the key to having a successful first message, of course, is actually being funny . On Tinder, you can pair an attention-grabbing GIF with a humorous message: On a dating site like Match.com or POF, you could make a joke about the shared experience of scrolling through profile after profile: Finding common ground is a pro move, because if you can make her think the two of you are similar she’s more likely to respond. Women are simply more comfortable around people who remind them of themselves. Which brings us to our next examples of opening lines… First Message Strategy #2: Connect On Common Ground Travel makes an awesome subject for a first message because it’s something most women enjoy doing, or at least enjoy dreaming about. And who doesn’t like to at least think they have a great sense of adventure? It's a topic you'll find mentioned in just about every person's profile . Many online dating sites like Match.com and OkCupid have keyword searches, so you can filter for women who also enjoy a certain hobby. So if you’re into skiing, you can send a message like the one to kelli_diann above to any interesting women who mention it in their profiles. On a dating app like Tinder or Bumble, you can take a quick glance at her photos and bio to see if any common interests jump out. For instance if you find you both love dogs, this would be a good first message for online dating: You’ll save a ton of time once you have a “go-to” copy and paste message for any hobby that you’d like to share with your matches. (Skeptical about the effectiveness of copy & paste? Read this article.) First Message Strategy #3: Inspire A Craving (Note: A long message like this example is a better fit for dating sites like Match, OkCupid or POF. You’re going to want to keep your messages quite a bit shorter on apps like Tinder and Bumble.) Certain words are attention-grabbing because they sound delicious. Chocolate, cheesecake, ala mode… who wouldn’t want to keep reading? Notice how it starts off with a light compliment. Complimenting her will often give you points, but only if you focus on intangible qualities like intelligence or her accomplishments. Don’t make the rookie mistake of praising her physical appearance, especially when you're trying to start a conversation with a girl online for the first time. Tons of guys do it, and she gets tons of messages with some variation of “you’re hot”. Paying her a more meaningful compliment is a breath of fresh air for her. Mentioning something yummy-sounding works just as well on dating apps. In fact, dating app Hinge discovered girls are 40% more likely to reply to messages about food. Here’s a short, delicious sounding message that’s perfect for a dating app: First Message Strategy #4: Get Personal It’s basic human nature to love talking about yourself. In fact, it literally stimulates your brain and makes you feel good. Ask her an open-ended question that gets her to share something about herself, and she’s instantly in her Happy Place. And the better she feels about talking to you, the more likely she is to share her number. The example above is more suited for an online dating site where longer messages are the norm, but you can get her talking about herself on a dating app with a short message like this: First Message Strategy #5: Show Off Your Creative Side Most of your competition is sending her lame first messages like “Hey, how was your weekend?” and “Hi, I’m John.” That’s great news for you, because it gives you the opportunity to shine by asking her an interesting, funny or creative question like this: Here’s what all 11 of these opening message examples have in common: They instantly pique her curiosity. If she doesn’t even want to keep reading, why would she bother responding, much less want to meet you in person ? They set you apart from the crowd. Remember, if she’s getting tons of messages from guys just like you. You’ve got to out-message them every time. They ask her a question. You need to make it as easy as possible for her to respond, and controlling the conversation is a simple way to do it. Those three elements are crucial if you want to get a response to your online dating opener. Miss one of them, and she’s moving on to the next person. Best Time To Send Your First Message To increase your odds of getting a response to your message, send them at a time it’s likely to be convenient for her to answer. Weekday evenings are generally best – many women unwind from a long day at work by firing up a dating app while catching up on Netflix. According to Nielsen, activity on both OkCupid and Tinder peaks at 9 pm, and usage starts to rapidly decline after 10 pm. On Bumble, the real action starts a little earlier, with activity peaking at 6 pm. And if you happen to find yourself stuck inside due to inclement weather like a blizzard, hurricane or rainstorm, put these first message examples to good use. NBC News did a little investigating, and found that bad weather goes hand in hand with increased activity on dating sites and apps. In many cases, the increase was pretty dramatic. During winter storm Juno, activity on Hinge picked up by a whopping 47%, which led to a 56% spike in the number of phone numbers exchanged, and an incredible 96% increase in 2-way message exchanges. On OkCupid, a little rain translates to a 10% increase in activity on the site, and Juno prompted a 36% activity spike. On Match, activity typically increases around 33% during snowstorms, and big storms go hand in hand with a 20-40% increase in Bumble activity. No Response? Here’s What To Do Next! Of course, there’s no copy and paste message that’s guaranteed to start a conversation every time you send it. There’s a ton of variables involved, like your photos and your online dating profile. If those aren’t top notch, our Ultimate Guide To Online Dating has all the tools and tips you need to bring them up to snuff. Other variables you can’t control, like what she’s doing when she’s reading your message. If she’s sneaking a peek at her Match.com profile in between meetings, she may not have a chance to respond and forget to come back to it later. If you don’t get a response, give her a second chance. Try a light-hearted follow up message like this one: But if she still doesn’t bite, move on. The more messages you send, the more desperate you look. Besides, there’s plenty more interesting, attractive women out there so focus your efforts on them. Why Savvy Guys Use Copy & Paste Messages Now let’s talk about the elephant in the room: copy & paste messages. A few online dating “experts” will tell you they don’t work. Online daters are too smart to fall for them. They’re a huge turn off. Blah blah blah. Those guys clearly haven’t done their homework. Here’s the truth in a nutshell. Statistically speaking, you’re looking at an uphill battle. The average guy has to crank out 114 messages in order to be 99% sure of getting one reply – and spend around 6.7 hours a week doing it. Given that fact, why would you spend tons of time scanning each and every woman’s profile, then writing a message customized just for her? That's crazy – you don't have that kind of time, especially when it's a numbers game . There’s a much better way to beat those odds, and boost your response rate at the same time. Here at VIDA, we’ve been using the copy and paste approach since 2009. Not only do copy and paste messages work, but we get incredible results for our clients with them. Our in-house data doesn’t lie. Other industry experts recognize the wisdom of the copy and paste method as well. OkCupid’s Christian Rudder said using template messages not only saves you time in the short term, but they’re a more effective long-term strategy as well. And even if a woman calls you out on sending a template message, so what? You’ve gotten a response that you can turn into a conversation. And many intelligent daters recognize the wisdom of using them, like this woman who weighed in on a Quora forum discussion: When your first message is interesting and creative, the odds are good she’s going to reply to it. Why? Because when you ask her a question that’s fun to think about and respond to, you’ve sparked an emotional connection. That’s the reason you’re not getting good results (if any) with first messages like “Hey” and “Hi there”. Where’s the fun in writing a response to that? And even worse, you’ve put the burden of continuing the conversation on her, so coming up with a response is work for her. 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